The Venom In The Terminology

A message came to me from a colleague about a post on LinkedIn drawing some attention. 

The post centered around what we (the veterinary profession) calls "futility of care." 

It was hard for me to read. Hard for me to internalize. Hard for the words to carry so much gravity and deliver so little of what our clients need from us. 

I don't know when it exactly happened. When that pivot point was. But somewhere along the way our message about treating out veterinary patients like family became treating them in the way we allowed.

I want the profession to start to pay attention to their words. I plea for the profession to also pay attention to their intentions. The gravity of the judgement within them;

Here are some of the most offensive;

"Pets are a privilege, not a right." Why would poor people deserve something to adore them? Someone to make you feel loved back.

"Futility of care." We decide when you stop caring, and, therefore,, stop looking for hope. Some pet parents struggle with grief and loss on a level veterinarians have refused to comprehend. People should be allowed to feel as they feel. Our job, well, that is to provide them the tools to do so. Hope is as integral in medicine as vaccines. Hospice is absolutely an acceptable avenue in medicine. Every kind of medicine. We, the veterinary profession, want to follow in the footsteps of our human counterparts and offer every billable option to our patients, so, why is it then that we also won’t offer hospice? Why are we so intent on being morally superior and yet still not empathetic to those we are here to serve? 

PS futility care is most often seen as cold and uncompassionate. Why would we ever use that term? Small animal medicine is about taking care of family members. Nothing is futile here right?

"Economic euthanasia" The fact that the profession has increased the cost of care so staggeringly fast that this is the last vestige of care we will permit, affordably. You cannot advocate for your patients to be treated like family and then decide they aren't worth options that work for the rest of the family. In 20 years of practicing medicine I have (hopefully) never denied care because it didn't work for me. It has taken me time to understand how different we all are. There have been clients who don't value their pets in a way congruent with care. 

"Replacement value" There are people who see pets much like food animals. They have a value that is defined by "replacement value." That dollar figure where it is cheaper to replace them than to fix them. Ask me to expose my soft vulnerable underbelly and help your pet out of a difficult situation and I will jump in. There isn't one person at the vet hospital who wouldn't jump in with me. But, don't ask me to look into that disposable pet and see them as replaceable. 

Elsa.. recently rescued and adopted

This blog comes from a post from a fellow veterinarian who started the post with;

"Today I had a client for which I refused treatment." The veterinarian went on to describe an elderly patient at the end of their disease. The pet parent bringing that pet is was back at their vet hospital, again, seeking help. The parent did not see the pet in the same light, the same degree of dying, that the veterinarian did. The pet parent wanted help. With that plea for help, with nothing more to offer that was feasible in helping the pet get better, with only euthanasia left, the vet posted that they were refusing treatment because watching this pet show up at the clinic was stressful for the staff. Like so many other instances this is a veterinarian who refuses to see the pet in the light we make such financial gains from and meet them where they need us to be. The parent wants to feel hope. They are aren't ready for the passing of their family member. Futility or not, there is absent compassion here for what the pet parent needs. We are turning our back on them when they need us most. Why can't anyone say, "what can I do to help?" When is declining a hand of empathy abandoning our responsibility?

I replied; "Today you decided to stop being a doctor."

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